Where Fatherhood Takes Center Stage!

Welcome to Bajadad a corner of the internet where fatherhood transcends geography. I’m Bookta: once a stay-at-home dad in Mexico, now a parent navigating distance from afar. Though life moved me to the UK, my heart remains in the rhythm of bedtime stories, remote hugs, and the challenge of being present when miles separate us.

Bajadad is my space to explore how fatherhood adapts — through reflections, tools, and stories for any dad doing his best, no matter where he is. Here you’ll discover:

• Honest essays and letters about long-distance parenting
• Practical “connection hacks” to make video calls, celebrations, and milestones feel real
• Lessons in emotional resilience, mental health, and evolving relationships
• Perspectives on travel, family life, and co-parenting across time zones

Fatherhood doesn’t follow one script. It is messy, evolving, and often contradictory and distance doesn’t mean absence. My mission is simple: to share what helps, admit what fails, and build a community of dads who get it wherever they are.

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